GANZAYA KAN ABISHA

Hello online mom…

Get to know me first.

My name is Ganzaya Kan Abisha, according to my mother Ganzaya means Destiny, Kan means Peace, tolerance, generosity and Abisha means God's gift, if translated. It was destiny that I had to be born in this world, and a gift from God why I had to be born in this world, someday I will be a boy who loves peace, has high tolerance, likes to share.

Mother told me about the mother who gave birth to me…

My mother was already very old when she gave birth to me. She had previously been married but divorced. From her first marriage, she had a child, then met my father and began a relationship with him, hoping to rebuild their marriage. At first, everything was wonderful, but that all changed when I was born. She had no intention of getting married and ultimately left her.

In the confusion, the mother found out about the safe house and finally after going through all the procedures, the mother was accepted into the safe house and lived with other pregnant women.

In Indonesia, especially in areas believed to uphold strong religious teachings and strong customs, many unmarried pregnant women or those in unregistered marriages seek refuge in safe houses. Most of the mothers come from Java and Sumatra, fearing the societal stigma of having a child without a husband or having been abandoned by their husbands. Economic factors are not the primary reason mothers surrender their babies to institutions.

Therefore, if you have relatives or friends in the situation described above, at least refrain from criticizing the pregnant woman. There are two lives to be saved. Everyone makes mistakes, but the unborn baby is innocent and doesn't deserve to be punished with harsh words.

Dear Abisha… now she is part of the big MettaMamaMaggha family, Big Sister Maggha prays that Abisha will be a good child and of course will be loved by hundreds of thousands of online mothers 🤍